Parts of this post are taken from an original post made by Mr McCampbell on September 21st 2014. Another example of his continued campaign against the good people that work in this community. This particular case is of someone who left her job in School District 81 citing one family, and the school boards inability to defend her from them as the reason. He has continued to “Stalk” her at her new place of employment, and with no end in site what is the victim of his rage supposed to do to protect herself from her “Stalker”? What are any of the people he spreads lies about supposed to do in their own defense?
When Kim Cline resigned on May 21, 2014 from her position as the Special Education Director for Schiller Park School District 81 she had an employment contract that was valid through June 30, 2016. See this link to read her contract:
You should ask yourself what is the motivation for the continued “Stalking” of the former Director of special education?
Narcissists are all about power and control. If they leave you after devaluing and discarding you, they’ve retained the power in their mind, so they can leave the relationship without a second thought.
However, if you leave them first, they will go on a revenge campaign that will make you question your very reason for existence. If you happen to have children with them, it’s best to prepare yourself for Dante’s circles of Hell, circa 4-9. http://letmereach.com/2014/03/15/can-a-narcissist-move-on/
So why would Kim Cline resign from Schiller Park School District 81 ? Most likely the only two people who know the true story is Dr. Kim Boryszewski and Ms. Cline, herself.
Failures, for instance, induce guilt. The narcissist always labels someone else’s efforts as “failures” and then proceeds to shift the responsibility for said failures to his victim so as to maximise the opportunity to chastise and castigate her.
Schiller Park School District 81 does not conduct exit interviews (which should preferably be done by an outside third party); therefore leaving the District 81 Board of Education at the mercy of the Superintendent with little additional information than the general public.
This continues the endless attacks against people who have slighted him/her
Vindictiveness is the narcissist’s way of restoring his self-imputed grandiosity and of recuperating from a narcissistic injury. Having fallen prey to malfeasance or crime, the narcissist is proven to be gullible, ignorant, and helpless. This experience is humiliating and the circumstances of victimhood contrast sharply with the narcissist’s inflated view of himself as omniscient, omnipotent, brilliant, shrewd, and perfect. Only by bringing the culprit to utter ruin does the narcissist regain his sense of self.
Clearly, neither individual appears to desire to “come clean” and explain the reason for the resignation; short of the “fairy tales” that have been spun through the community by Dr. Boryszewski’s “spin doctors”.
They will pathologically lie.
As such, you can expect fabricated stories, twisted facts and downright dirty tactics.
The narcissist is very capable of telling solicitors, police and courthouses exactly whatever lies he or she wants to, in order to try to punish you, get the upper hand and win, project blame, create smear campaigns, play the victim as if he or she has been vilified (especially when things aren’t going well for him or her), and of course disregard any personal accountability for his or her unacceptable behaviour.
– See more at: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/overcome-pathological-lies-narcissist-win-divorce-settlement-and-custody-battles/#sthash.V1Uif0Zf.dpuf
You have to ask yourself who would voluntarily resign from a guaranteed job through 2016, making $95,000 per year with your pension picked up by the District in the amount of over $9,000.00 and an annual increase of almost 5% per year ?
First, let us look at the history which got the District to May 21, 2014 with Ms. Cline. Ms. Cline was hired in the Spring of 2012, and came to the District from Wisconsin without an Illinois certificate or endorsement for Director of Special Education. Ms. Cline was granted a nonrenewable provisional certificate as a Director of Special Education expiring June 30, 2014, by the Illinois State Board of Education. Therefore, Ms. Cline commencing 2012 had to attend classes and training programs as well as pass a test to receive a permanent credential as a Director of Special Education. These classes and training were then paid for by the taxpayers of District 81 and in many cases attended on taxpayer paid time. In February, 2014, Ms. Cline achieved the permanent credential with ISBE as a Director of Special Education.
Thus far we know that Kim Cline after getting an employment contract through 2016, receiving all of her education paid for by the taxpayers of Schiller Park School District 81 to get her permanent credential as a Director of Special Education issued by ISBE, Ms. Cline then appears to begin to shop for a new job with the full knowledge of Dr. Kim Boryszewski, while they both full well know that she is bound by a contract to the District until June 30, 2016.
Why can we conclude that the latter happened after she go her permanent credential ?
Narcissists are allergic to healthy boundaries and fairness. If you question the insensitive things they do or put any limits whatsoever on their bad behavior, you will be targeted for social, professional, or personal obliteration. Whatever narcissists perceive to be your psychological or situational weak spots will be their prime targets.
For instance, if the narcissist knows that your greatest fear is social ridicule, that will be the main focus of the smear campaign. If he or she knows that recently, you made a mistake for which you feel guilty, that will be used against you. Narcissists know that the more effectively they can pinpoint your insecurities or flaws, the more successful they will be in eroding your confidence and your influence. And if they manage to do that, they stand a good chance of getting back the power they planned to do whatever they pleased with before you got in their way.
A FOIA filed with Ms. Cline’s new employer, Keeneyville District 20 provides some very enlightening information. Go to this link to see Ms. Cline’s job application for the position of Director of Student Services and Exceptional Populations :KimClineJobApplicationForKeeneyvilleDistrict20DirectorOfStudent
Go to this link to read the job posting: JobPostingForKeeneyvilleDistrict20DirectorOfStudentServices and and note the date that the job was posted March 28, 2014, the date that the taking of applications closed was April 18, 2014 and the date that Ms. Cline submitted her application on line April 5, 2014. The application submitted by Ms. Cline can be found at this link:KimClineJobApplicationForKeeneyvilleDistrict20DirectorOfStudent You should also note her references included Dr. Kim Boryszewski, as well as several other fellow administrators of District 81.
You can go to this link to see the contract that Ms. Cline got on May 22, 2014, with Keeneyville District 20 for the position of Director of Student Services and Exceptional Populations : KimClineEmploymentContractKeeneyvilleDist20For2014-2015
Why would Dr. Kim Boryszewski support an administrator searching for a job which would break her commitement through 2016, to District 81 and its taxpayers as well as the Board of Education ?
Why would Dr. Kim Boryszewski be so reckless as to not make any replacement plans sooner and keep the Board of Education informed that clearly that she was going to recommend that the Board of Education let Ms. Cline out of her contract.
This ill conceived conduct by the Superintendent has left the District without a permanent Director of Special Education and left the Special Education program in shambles.
Was this intentional conduct by the Superintendent to discredit Board of Education leadership and target parents with her “spin doctors” ?
Why else would the Superintendent recommend to the Board of Education to let an administrator out of a binding contract which was in effect through 2016 ?
Did Dr. Boryszewski ask Ms. Cline to leave and offered to let her out of her contract and she would give her a good reference ?
The Narcissist Feels entitled to your time, attention, admiration, and resources. Interprets every rejection as an act of aggression which leads to a narcissistic injury. Reacts with sustained rage and vindictiveness. Can turn violent because he feels omnipotent and immune to the consequences of his actions. http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily19.html
It is quite clear that the current special education “crisis” is ” owned ” by Dr. Kim Boryszewski and may have been created intentionally by her as well.
The narcissist deliberately confuses responsibility with guilt. The concepts are so close that the distinctions often get blurred. By provoking guilt in responsibility-laden situations, the narcissist transforms life with him into a constant trial. Actually, the continuous trial itself is the punishment.
It is terrible that children have to suffer because of the political maneuvering by adults, especially school administrators.
A messiah complex (also known as the Christ complex or savior complex) is a state of mind in which an individual holds a belief that they are, or are destined to become, a savior. The term “messiah complex” is not addressed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), but symptoms of the disorder closely resemble those found in individuals suffering from grandiose delusions(GD) or delusions of grandeur. This form of delusional belief is most often reported in patients suffering from bipolar disorder andschizophrenia. Little is known about the disorder, but it is believed that as many as 10% of the population may hold similar beliefs in one form or another, though not significant enough to warrant a diagnosis. Examples include Jim Jones and David Koresh.
Whatever the purpose for her departure the real winner in all of this was Ms. Kim Cline.
Ms. Cline got a two year apprenticeship training experience at above market pay at District 81, her education paid for by the taxpayers of District 81 to attain her permanent “Director of Special Education” credential, released from her contract binding her to the District until June 30, 2016 and a $10,000 pay raise to go to District 20.
The real loser in all of this are the children and taxpayers of District 81.
Clearly, the children and taxpayers of District 81 have a bad stewardship in the leadership of Dr. Kim Boryszewski.
What is the Schiller Park School District 81 Board of Education going to do about this ?
Clearly a majority of the Board of Education continues to protect the inept conduct of the Superintendent.
At the September 17, 2014, Board member, Mary Ann Desecki, made a motion to eliminate the Board evaluation of Dr. Kim Boryszewski for this year. This motion passed with Mary Ann Desecki, Tina Ewanio, Allison Downs and Richard Flanagan voting to eliminate the Board evaluation of Dr. Kim Boryszewski as well as not setting any goals to be evaluated next year.
Board President, David Stachura and Board Vice President Pat Godziszewski strenuously opposed the elimination of the evaluation and goal setting for the Superintendent. Vice President Pat Godziszewski felt that the Board had totally relinquished control of the District to a “runaway” Superintendent.
As we know narcissists often act in ways that defy all definition of normal. They regularly break the rules, tell lies, break promises, degrade, demean and exhibit unjust, aggressive and abusive behaviour that is inappropriate, childish, without remorse and totally inhuman. Basically tell complete falsehoods to aid in their personal attacks against the people they are stalking.
Now Dr. Kim Boryszewski has done everything to avoid taking responsibility of the “trainwreck” involving the District 81 Special Education Program which was of her making.
Some narcissists are more subtle than others. They disguise their sadism. For instance, they “educate” their family members or friends (for their sake, as they present it). This “education” is compulsive, obsessive, incessantly, harshly and unduly critical. Its effect is to erode the subject, to humiliate, to create dependence, to intimidate, to restrain, to control, to paralyse.
The information above is nothing more then my observations, and opinions. Reading the extensive attacks on his blog’s regulars you have to ask yourself why? Why continue to target or stalk an individual that has already resigned her employment in School District 81?
“It’s likely, if you have suffered narcissistic abuse, that you have a high level of integrity, and it’s likely you’re known as a person who does the right thing. You have a conscience, and because you do, you’re mindful of considering your environment and other people. Therefore you will be dismayed, and even regularly incensed by the narcissist’s inability to conduct themselves appropriately, or abide by basic human morality and decency. It’s likely that you will fight for decency and morality. Before long you’ll find yourself lecturing and prescribing ‘correct behaviour’ as if you were talking to a 5 year old.
YOU act responsibly and uphold your integrity, therefore why shouldn’t THEY?
Life with a narcissist is like a bag of tricks, and a box of chocolates. You never know what will morph out of thin air, or be unwrapped next. You are constantly on edge, walking on broken glass and suffering from high levels of anxiety. Understandably you want the instability and madness to stop…
Forcing accountability logically seems to be the answer, so that the crazy feelings and fear can end.
Your Integrity Is Used Against You” http://pauerhouse.wordpress.com/2013/06/18/npd-narcissist-personality-disorder-i-feel-i-should-let-people-know-more-intimately-what-this-means/
It has been said by others, and It is also my strong opinion that this community is being systematically destroyed by one individual “The Destruction of Schiller Park” is unfolding before our very eyes! The McCampbellites are simply victims of his ability to persuade. Do not place blame or fault on those that still defend someone who has the unnerving ability to convince others that their lies and deceits are true.